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We did it! We made it through 2020! We did what it took to keep one another safe and stayed alive. We’re ready for 2020 to be over and a bit apprehensive about 2021, but we’re all here. That is worth celebrating. Christmas is worth celebrating, too, even if it’s by ourselves where we live. Jesus came to this earth and did what we could not do: lived a perfect life, then gave up his life for the forgiveness of all our sins. Through him we have eternal, perfect life in heaven! The news can’t get any better than that! Merry Christmas, and Happy New Year!  Photo: JLS Photography - Alaska, Flickr Creative Commons Darla Nagel is a biomedical copy editor who has an invisible chronic illness. She wants to educate healthcare professionals and encourage patients. If you want to receive quarterly updates from her, email darla.nagel{a}gmail.com.
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Did you know there is a scholarly field called disability studies, and did you know there is a disability justice movement? Both shed light on the experiences and societal needs of people with disabilities and seek the inclusion of a historically shunned group. To learn more about disability justice, read the works of activist Tobin Siebers and check out the Twitter hashtags #ThingsDisabledPeopleKnow and #DisabledAndCute. Quote from Siebers: “Disability marks the last frontier of unquestioned inferiority because the preference for able-bodiedness makes it extremely difficult to embrace disabled people and to recognize their unnecessary and violent exclusion from society” (Tobin Siebers, quoted in Amanda Leduc, Disfigured, page 209). Read my review of Disfigured below. Darla Nagel is a biomedical copy editor who has an invisible chronic illness. She wants to educate healthcare professionals and encourage patients. If you want to receive quarterly updates from her, email darla.nagel{a}gmail.com.
Amanda Leduc’s Disfigured: On Fairy Tales, Disability, and Making Space opens our eyes to how the portrayal of disabilities in fairy tales sets children up to shun disabled people, and she advocates for more accurate narratives of these excluded people. She weaves in her personal account of growing up with cerebral palsy, which keeps the book from becoming a scholarly work inaccessible to the majority of readers. You’ll never view the Disney princesses the same way again. This book was educational even for someone who has spent 10 years creating and sharing her own narrative of life with a disabling chronic illness that doesn’t have the classic fairytale happy ending, an ending which, according to Leduc, is not only unrealistic but also psychologically unhealthy. Great quotes from the book: “We exist in a world where happiness is synonymous with not being disabled—anything less than this comes across as undeserving, simply through virtue of not meeting the able-bodied ideal” (page 210). “This conceptualization of disability—at best merely a metaphor for psychological ills that can be overcome, at worse a punishment or judgment that can be reversed through magical or spiritual means, though only if one deserves it—does a disservice to the actual lived experience of what it means to occupy a different body in the world….denying the lived reality of what it means to be a disabled body in the world denies the possibility of growth on the disabled person’s terms” (page 216).  A girl of color with cerebral palsy walks. Photo: Exceed Worldwide, Flickr Creative Commons Darla Nagel is a biomedical copy editor who has an invisible chronic illness. She wants to educate healthcare professionals and encourage patients. If you want to receive quarterly updates from her, email darla.nagel{a}gmail.com.
In July I attended a virtual summit for people with chronic illnesses hosted by Lisa Sniderman. The speakers included practitioners, counselors, and patients, and for me two interviewees stood out: Danielle Lowe (music therapist for people with mental health conditions) and Amy Oestreicher (author, health advocate, and survivor of an exploded stomach). Lowe said, “So I guess what I would offer up is to, even though it can be hard sometimes, to advocate for ourselves, to make an effort to advocate for yourself when it’s difficult for what you need, whether it’s an accommodation or extra time or a different appointment or extra appointment, less appointments, to really check in with yourself for what you’re needing and ask for it. And if the other person isn’t willing to kind of accept that then you shouldn’t, you should find someone that will, and never be afraid [of] asking for what you need or for more help.” Oestreicher said, “Hope isn’t like this inspirational beam of light that’s just like, ‘Okay, I am going to have hope.’ Hope is like a job that we have to actively create….Hope is the fuel that gets us down a road that’s uncertain.” If you want additional lessons learned from chronic illness, email me, and I’ll send them your way!  Hope gets us down uncertain roads. Photo: Jamie McCaffrey, Flickr Creative Commons Darla Nagel is a biomedical copy editor who has an invisible chronic illness. She wants to educate healthcare professionals and encourage patients. If you want to receive quarterly updates from her, email darla.nagel{a}gmail.com.
“At nearly 20 percent of the U.S. population, people with disabilities represent one of the largest minority groups, but it has often been an overlooked one. That may be changing with a new wave of activism by those who want to change the way disability is viewed in the U.S.” —National Center on Disability and Journalism’s website We’re not seeing as much representation of people with visible and invisible disabilities in the media as we should given the recent surge in diversity/inclusiveness campaigns. Have you seen efforts to ensure vulnerable patients have easy access to personal protective equipment? Have you seen people using mobility aids or service animals in those ads that harp on how “we’re all in this together”? Now is the time to assert that our lives and our needs matter, too, and ought to be in the spotlight rather than shoved off to one side. What can people without disabilities do? Start by watching your language. Unless we ask to be called crippled, handicapped, impaired, or suffering, don’t call us that. We are people with disabilities, not the lifeless-sounding “the disabled.” Ask us whether and how we want our conditions mentioned in your writing and speeches. Then listen to us! You can learn more about acceptable versus unacceptable terms to use at the website mentioned above. The Americans with Disabilities Act was passed on July 26, 1990. #NCDJ30for30 Darla Nagel is a biomedical copy editor who has an invisible chronic illness. She wants to educate healthcare professionals and encourage patients. If you want to receive quarterly updates from her, email Darla.Nagel{a}gmail.com.
 I'm singing in my "recording studio." I had the time and physical energy to write a book while staying home, but my heart led me toward music instead of writing. The people closest to me seemed to need comfort, the focus of my singing, rather than spurring to action, the focus of my nonfiction writing. With help and inspiration from Audacity, YouTube, and Flickr, I’ve posted a few personal music videos on Facebook. You can see my video of Twila Paris’s “How Beautiful” here. I will write again, but for now, I’m expressing my voice musically. Don’t be afraid to make your voice heard in a new way if that will reach your audience! Darla Nagel is a biomedical copy editor who has an invisible chronic illness. She wants to educate healthcare professionals and encourage patients. If you want to receive quarterly updates from her, email darla.nagel{a}gmail.com.
Solve ME/CFS is a nonprofit that supports scientific research and physician and caregiver education on ME. Patients benefit from its research grants and free educational newsletter and webinars. I like keeping up with research developments and learning names of scientists who are interested in exploring ME. Without a new generation of researchers and clinicians focused on ME, we will lose the little progress we’ve made in the past decade. SolveMECFS.org has a large website, so I’ll narrow it down to the most useful parts: patient resources, whose audience ranges from those who don’t know what ME is to those who’ve lived with it for years, and scientific initiatives, including links to a patient biobank registry and patient narratives for medical professionals. This resource has been added to my list of resources for patients with ME or fibromyalgia. With Solve ME/CFS, you can get involved in advocacy campaigns or simply learn more about your diagnosis. If there are other resources you’d like me to share, let me know in the comments! Darla Nagel is a biomedical copy editor who has an invisible chronic illness. She wants to educate healthcare professionals and encourage patients. If you want to receive quarterly updates from her, email darla.nagel{a}gmail.com.
Want a new prayer to pray for yourself or for someone who has a chronic illness? Use these two prayers from the book A Year of Prayer: Lord Jesus, you are the Lord of our bodies and our souls. Teach us to care for the bodies you have given us, and remind us that they are temples of the Holy Spirit. Keep both our souls and bodies safe from all harm and danger today. In your name we pray. Amen. O Great Physician, your forgiveness brings us the healing we need. Yet so many remain afflicted with sickness and disease. Strengthen doctors, nurses, and all who care for the sick, that they may use the skills you have given them to bring comfort and relief. Encourage all who are ill with your presence and love, that they may put their trust in you. Amen.  Source: Long Thiên, Flickr Creative Commons Darla Nagel is a biomedical copy editor who has an invisible chronic illness. She wants to educate healthcare professionals and encourage patients. If you want to receive quarterly updates from her, email darla.nagel{a}gmail.com.
A mother’s love is an art more beautiful than any piece hanging on a wall or standing on display. It includes self-sacrificing concern for the emotional and physical needs of her children, no matter their age or ability to reciprocate. Mothers who care for their children with chronic illnesses and disabilities have a demanding role that I share my appreciation for every day. Thank you, mothers! My mom, who is just like me but better and taller, believed in my illness from day one, advocated for me in front of dismissive doctors, cooked my meals and did my chores, pulled me off couches when I couldn’t get up, and read pages from my memoir draft, and that list barely skims the surface. Thank you, Mom! Give your mom a hug, phone call, or whatever token of love and appreciation she wants today.  Mom and me having the chocolate fix of our lives in Germany in March 2014 Darla Nagel is a biomedical copy editor who has an invisible chronic illness. She wants to educate healthcare professionals and encourage patients. If you want to receive quarterly updates from her, email darla.nagel{a}gmail.com.
One benefit for me of my state’s stay-at-home order is that I don’t need to worry about what my face looks like. For someone who has battled acne for nine years, that’s a time-saver and confidence booster. I might put a dab of blush and lipstick on if there’s a work video call, but otherwise, I put on acne treatments and makeup only when I really feel like it. Usually I don’t really feel like it. After weeks of diet experiments to counteract any food-caused acne in January and February, the only food I’m still limiting is peanut butter. All together, it feels great. It probably looks better than I think it does, too. Good thing the latest acne treatment I was trying was cheap enough to be laid aside without guilt: resveratrol from The Ordinary from ULTA Beauty. Darla Nagel is a biomedical copy editor who has an invisible chronic illness. She wants to educate healthcare professionals and encourage patients. If you want to receive quarterly updates from her, email darla.nagel{a}gmail.com.
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